Hey Steve: Tracking Down The Boyfriend!
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Hey Steve: Tracking Down The Boyfriend!

January 14, 2020

(audience applauding)
– Hey Steve. I have four daughters. My oldest, 21, has been
dating this guy for five years and she won’t let me meet him for the reasons that I’m
intimidating and overprotective. Well she doesn’t have social media so I don’t know what he looks like and she’s doing a really
good job, but (laughs). I guess my question to you is how do I convince her to let me meet him? My youngest even went as
far as like riding them out one time and told me they’re at the mall. But by the time I popped up, he caught wind of me and
took off before I even found. (Steve laughs)
(audience cheers) It was quick, he was out. – That’s good. So you got a reputation? – [Man With Microphone]
It looks that way, yes. – [Steve] ‘Cause you got four daughters. – I have four. This is my oldest, my
other three won’t dare. (audience laughs) – See, this type of father I like. So you trying to find a way to get her to convince her to let you meet him. – Exactly. – See, we can find this boy. – [Man With Microphone]
I like the way you think. – Aw yeah dog, I don’t have a
lot of boys to hear it from me ’cause my reputation is stellar. – [Man With Microphone]
Let’s see what you got. – If you come for my
baby, I’ma check you out. If I don’t think you
right, you got to get on. She did hid this boy for a long time. Somebody know him. First thing we gotta do
is we got to get his name. We got to get a name. Does your daughter live with you? – No, she doesn’t. She lives with the mum. – Ah, okay. See, this how we do it. Stakeout. (audience laughs) (audience applauds) Get a car that ain’t yours, black out the windows. (audience laughs) Park up the street, not
in front of the house, ’bout four cars down and
just eyeball her house. (man with microphone laughs) Get you some coffee, get your thermos jug, get you some 5-hour. (audience laughs) He gonna come over there. The first boy you see go
through that door that she blow, rang a doorbell, go up to the porch, go to the apartment, that’s him. Notice the car that he got out of. Get the license plate. You ain’t gotta confront him right now. (audience applauds) Get the tag, take a picture of the tag, take a picture of the car. Because look man, you gotta
protect your daughter. It’s your baby girl. She 21, she don’t know everything. My 21 year old daughter now, sometime I can’t tell her nothing, man. I be going, “Come on now. “Baby, I got you.” “Dad, it’s not like that anymore.” No, it’s exactly like that. You know what? Ain’t nothing change in boy meets girl. That ain’t never changing. Y’all just got some technology now. The rest of it’s the
same to the end of time. (audience applauds) Partner. Look, I got friends and, you know, if you get that license plate, the picture of that car, call me up dog. (audience cheers) Call me up, I got you. Where’s Levira? Hi Levira, what’s your question? (audience cheers)


  • Reply Ab X August 16, 2019 at 12:36 pm

    Fellows: This is a concerned father. This is how dads are supposed to be. Otherwise boyfriends would leave these daughters to be single mothers. Get it!

  • Reply Angel Zamora August 16, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    Little does he know the boyfriend was in the crowd 😂 hahah

  • Reply C Joe August 16, 2019 at 12:41 pm

    dumb ass. u aren't gonna stop every single guy in the country.
    U gotta EDUCATE the girls on how to choose guys. Teach them to fish.

  • Reply C Joe August 16, 2019 at 12:41 pm

    dumb ass. u aren't gonna stop every single guy in the country.
    U gotta EDUCATE the girls on how to choose guys. Teach them to fish.

  • Reply My Channel August 16, 2019 at 12:43 pm

    First of all if I had a daughter, she ain’t having no boyfriend at the age of 16. She has to be at least 21 or over. Even at that age (21)… imma make sure I know the boys name, where he study at, who his friends are, who his family is, his occupation, his address and so on.

  • Reply Deidra B August 16, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Wow I feel bad for diddy lol 😂

  • Reply Hi There August 16, 2019 at 12:55 pm

    Steve your daughters are spoiled you aint doing nothing

  • Reply GypsyGirl A2 August 16, 2019 at 12:58 pm

    I would be this dad but as a mom if I had kids. TOO overprotective doesnt exist when it comes to my baby! Infertility prevented me from having kids but all my friends and fam use me as the baby sitter cause they know I would do anything for my babies LOL 🙂 Love Steves advice and this dad! Protect those daughters!

  • Reply Martha Skidmore August 16, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    GM Mr Steve👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽. I am a mother of 1 biological child & she’s 22 years old. Mr Steve she will always be my baby. I don’t care who criticizes me 4 being that way because some people do. Now my baby has never had a boyfriend yet. Until this day I’m still not ready 4 her 2 have 1. We have talks about it & she say that she’s not ready for all of that. She graduated from a Culinary Arts School in Baton Rouge Louisiana & she’s now in her Junior year at the University of New Orleans majoring in Business Management. Mr Steve that’s my baby. It was only myself & her until she made 16 years old then God sent me my king who treats her as if he’s her biological dad. Her father was never in her life accept for maybe 2 or 3 forced visits when she was a baby. I’m soo happy that she’s waiting it to get involved with guys because I don’t want nothing or no one 2 come between her & her studies. She’s very focused right now & in an awesome place in her life for a young lady. Mr Steve I thank God evyday because of the person has made you 2 be & for all of the advice he’s giving 2 you 2 share with us. Always continue 2 keep God 1st in evythg you do. I love you Mr Steve🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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  • Reply Dk Nurul August 16, 2019 at 1:39 pm

    Overprotective father 😆😄

  • Reply John D August 16, 2019 at 1:46 pm

    Pssh… it's easier than a stake-out. Just give her sisters, your other daughters, incentives to find out the details. Start with an explanation of needing to protect the sister, which is the truth. It's not "narcing", it's defending your babies. That would teach them to also help look out for each other. If you're trying to hide a boy from Mom or Dad, that's just trouble.

  • Reply Maria Rodriguez August 16, 2019 at 1:53 pm

    And this is why I loooove steve!!!

  • Reply Rukky Otokiti August 16, 2019 at 1:56 pm

    Steve you are FBI agent on relationship man!😂😂

  • Reply Edii Na August 16, 2019 at 1:58 pm

    he seems like a great dad 🙂 my dad is the same way. he knows my boyfriend and STILL is overprotective LMFAO. dad's are funny. they just love their daughters

  • Reply Matthew Family August 16, 2019 at 2:18 pm

    Put a chip in your daughter 🙂

  • Reply Miranda Holley August 16, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    The boyfriend is a punk. If you are dating a woman and cannot meet her father if he wants to speak, something is wrong.

  • Reply Kingdom Bound August 16, 2019 at 3:12 pm

    Brah said call me up! Do it gNsta style, cause these dudes out here done learn some real ignorant-stuff from they peers. They need some ignorant old school heads that will take them to da streets if they mess with their babies. #realtalk

  • Reply Shelly Ann Emerson August 16, 2019 at 3:32 pm

    I like this advice beautiful Steve

  • Reply Letitia Latifah Najieb August 16, 2019 at 5:05 pm

    Dad, you are a wonderful person. Thank God for men like you. Good advice Steve.
    Thank you for bringing a program that folks can get another opinion or just good advice.

  • Reply Ora Johnson August 16, 2019 at 5:20 pm

    Dads are like that. It took a long time before anyone approached me because of my dad.

  • Reply Error Report August 16, 2019 at 5:52 pm

    Nah Steve, Lauri our there killing that stellar reputation 😭

  • Reply Ron K August 16, 2019 at 6:24 pm

    Good father right there

  • Reply Vahid Vaisi August 16, 2019 at 6:29 pm

    Did steve harvey just suggest that this guy should commit a crime?!

  • Reply 'Ammarah May August 16, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    Why is that boy heading. So disrespect to not meet the dad

  • Reply Grant Franchey August 16, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    So ugggghhh who’s job is it to protect young boys from lying manipulative girls that use boys???

  • Reply Michael O Callaghan August 16, 2019 at 9:42 pm

    I have daughter, can I be in the alliance of father, don't mess with mine or anyone elses lol

  • Reply daexion August 16, 2019 at 10:49 pm

    This won't end well for anyone, and I wouldn't expect him to meet any of his daughter's boyfriends after this.

    Just to avoid confusion I mean all of his daughters, not just one of them.

  • Reply Zena zema August 16, 2019 at 11:36 pm

    Wow this sounds kind of weird. Praying for the dad.

  • Reply Zena zema August 16, 2019 at 11:41 pm

    Steve is so right at 21 I didn’t know anything thanks Steve for the good advice you give.

  • Reply Shawn P August 16, 2019 at 11:41 pm

    Steve you can’t even handle your own daughter. Lori out here thotin

  • Reply SJR26 August 17, 2019 at 12:07 am

    I am a single mom and I am all for that plan 🙂

  • Reply ERES August 17, 2019 at 12:12 am

    wheres the mustage

  • Reply StrongnBeautiful August 17, 2019 at 1:04 am

    This man has been in a relationship for 5 years and doesn't want to meet her father?? Come on now. #fishy

  • Reply Dira Boddie August 17, 2019 at 3:12 am

    5 years?!?!

  • Reply No One August 17, 2019 at 3:22 am

    She’s 21 tho, kinda messed up
    Like I don’t agree with her hiding the boyfriend but hey it’s her decision

  • Reply Somedude626 August 17, 2019 at 3:36 am

    Boyfriend is a punka#%…bite the bullet and meet the father sooner or later you going to have to meet him…it’s disrespectful and I that hate some dumbass ditched me

  • Reply Michael R. August 17, 2019 at 12:45 pm

    She has been dating this guy since she was 16. If she won’t let her dad meet him after 5 years, there is something seriously wrong with the guy. Either he is 35+ years old, he is a drug dealer, or he is her pimp.

  • Reply Chrissy 101 August 17, 2019 at 12:56 pm

    Parents, please stay out of your grown children’s business (21 and up). The reason why they don’t want you to meet the person they are dating right away is because they may not feel that that person is the right one at the moment. I’m not taking anyone to meet my parents unless I’m 100% sure that the person is the right one. Period!

  • Reply Kiwi August 17, 2019 at 1:16 pm

    If she's hiding the boyfriend from her dad most likely what it is it's just a wham-bam thank-you ma'am that's a booty call

  • Reply gloria hodge August 17, 2019 at 4:23 pm

    Steve is right again!!!

  • Reply samilton87 August 17, 2019 at 4:29 pm

    I would love to see a video of father doing this with Steve or Ruben

  • Reply Sharon Brown August 17, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    It amazes me how all you people are commenting about Steve’s daughter, 1st of all I’m sure he’s given her tons of advice, she’s over 21 and can do what she wants! Y’all want him to tie her up and cage her! Lol! At 21 the lessons and mistakes are going to be enormous, just like I’m sure all of you have experienced! Ok Diddy is old enough to be her Dad but he’s also a billionaire and guess what…folks with money marry into money! Yall know Diddy like em young! Steves other daughter married an investment banker….hello money!!!! Ijs

  • Reply Chris cookies August 17, 2019 at 5:28 pm

    I know she’s getting blacked real good 🍆💦💦💦💦💦

  • Reply starbwoi 1 August 17, 2019 at 10:10 pm

    The father is worried because she's hiding the dude for years which would ring alarm bell to any protective father, "why is she hiding him hmmm he's probably a drug dealer or just a little bumm!"

  • Reply Renee August 17, 2019 at 11:55 pm

    County clerk of court sites are searchable for ALL public records… you can find out alot… my daughter knows that before she even mentions him I have done a background check and know where they work and all the info…small town life is great

  • Reply Just Matt Here August 18, 2019 at 12:41 pm

    5 years though? This father does not want to meet this dude, he wants to kill him. The boyfriend doesn't seem like a good dude to not want to meet the father of his girl either!

  • Reply Plan-B TV August 18, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    The Father is concerned and every Father should take his step

  • Reply Shaw Mou August 19, 2019 at 2:42 am

    Again! Beard!

  • Reply soulstrenth crusader August 19, 2019 at 11:02 am

    Steve ain't playing! Wow…I would love to see an update…but…

  • Reply Full Body Joe August 19, 2019 at 11:57 am

    Sometimes our kids forget that Dad's were young men once. We know what goes down, good and bad. I tell my daughters everything that can happen while they are dating, good and bad.

    Dad's, never be scared or embarrassed to talk to your daughters about anything at any time.

    You will save their life.

  • Reply Sowon Best August 19, 2019 at 1:33 pm

    Ok i respect that the father is trying to protect his child, but isn't that unrespectful for her، stalking her boyfriend .. i mean maybe he is not perfect and like she knows if she let him meet her boy then the dad won't agree and they will have fights over it

  • Reply C U August 19, 2019 at 3:50 pm

    Stupid child

  • Reply Mara August 19, 2019 at 9:56 pm

    Hope the daughter is not watching this show. 😱

  • Reply ROYAL_EMPRESS August 20, 2019 at 2:14 am

    My crush wants to meet my dad

  • Reply Shelly-Ann J. Hamilton August 20, 2019 at 4:59 pm

    so how you can guve advise and you dont know what the hell puffy a do with lori…steve bye. Thats why you and monique have differences because you talk on thing to the people and do another….

  • Reply Nigel August 20, 2019 at 5:16 pm

    meeting parents is whatever as a guy as long as you have nothing to hide having a job and graduating this year helps too anything else u wanna know makes his own money check finished school check okay bye nice too meet you lets cut the bs i know why im really here lets get this over with so i can go home i really dont care to meet parents im solid no criminal record check etc…loool

  • Reply Aleah Arthur August 20, 2019 at 8:10 pm

    The father is good looking I like him great dad protect your princess

  • Reply Bonnie Edmonds August 20, 2019 at 11:55 pm

    Steve I think you're so handsome but I think you look handsome with just your goatee not the rest of that white hair on your face but you're handsome

  • Reply Live From The Fridge August 21, 2019 at 6:14 am

    Wow 1:22 the girl with the glasses 👓, she’s so beautiful. Where can I find her 😞?

  • Reply Gloria G August 21, 2019 at 9:25 pm

    My dad was the same haha. Good ol mexican daddys

  • Reply AS August 21, 2019 at 11:33 pm

    The daughter seems way too toxic. How can she gaslight her father by wrongly blaming and lieing that her father is intimidating. He clearly is not if he allowed this for 5 years! It could also be her bf is abusive and controlling and somehow manipulated her into hiding him so he gets away with treating her wrong. No accountability. Seems like it's only a win situation for the bf. Most girls love to share their bf pics.

  • Reply Zenith Reza August 22, 2019 at 2:18 am

    Or you could just ask the mom for the boyfriends name

  • Reply Boned You August 22, 2019 at 2:55 am

    Yup shes "dating" a suger daddy.

  • Reply Aamna Here August 22, 2019 at 11:56 am

    I am personally against such fathers who do not emotionally invest in their daughters to earn their trust. If your children cannot even tell you the name of their boyfriend then something is clearly wrong. Also in American culture it's clearly different where girls as young as 14 and 15 are having sex and becoming single mothers. I come from a traditional society and women while they do meet men and have relationships, there is no culture of young girls growing up way before their age.

  • Reply Rajan Cool August 22, 2019 at 1:45 pm

    Steve's daughter dating man double of her age. Is that true…???

  • Reply SUnnYY13 August 23, 2019 at 2:24 am

    Plot twist. He was actually in the audience

  • Reply Shayna Dorsey August 23, 2019 at 2:50 am

    Ain’t no way I’d be dating someone for that long and my parents not meet him. That’s insane it’s been that long and he hasn’t met her boyfriend yet. It’s probably something about the bf she knows her dad won’t like.

  • Reply Christine Nashimwe August 23, 2019 at 8:16 am

    Did he realize this is on tv 😂 that boy may already saw this show 🤣😂👌🏽

  • Reply Constantia de Gier August 23, 2019 at 1:09 pm

    Why does everyone assume the father is a good person?
    Maybe they run away because he is a narcissist or something?

  • Reply bella gie August 23, 2019 at 1:54 pm

    A real man know how and will face his girlfriend father if not, think again you might dating a boy.😅

  • Reply fried chicken August 23, 2019 at 6:01 pm

    :08 What tf he means 5 year’s?!?!???? She’s 21!

  • Reply D D August 24, 2019 at 12:07 am

    See, everyone is defending the dad, but what if he intimidates and threatens her boyfriends and that's why she's too embarrassed to let them meet. Can't trust him to act civilized. Stalking them on their dates is creepy and a little insane. For all you know the daughter is the one telling him to leave.

  • Reply Nicola Marsh August 24, 2019 at 1:51 am

    If he has been dating your daughter fir 5 years and dont make it a point of duty to meet the girl's dad. What kind of plans do you have for her?

  • Reply From Singing To Soccer August 24, 2019 at 8:39 am

    Dating for five years and hasn't met her father? Especially when they are adults? That's really weird. It's not like you need his permission, but, after five years, wouldn't you want to meet your girlfriends family? Seems like there is no intention of marriage there…

  • Reply noura nona August 25, 2019 at 6:23 am

    I wish my dad like that …

  • Reply D.A.B.G Dewu August 25, 2019 at 3:03 pm

    She probably got pregnant now

  • Reply Mirreyna Colon August 25, 2019 at 5:44 pm

    I know a guy who knows a guy

  • Reply Afro Gyal August 25, 2019 at 10:33 pm

    I wish I had a dad . Be thankful

  • Reply Eletha Duffy August 26, 2019 at 5:18 pm

    You are the best, Steve! I hope he calls you.

  • Reply R H August 26, 2019 at 9:03 pm

    The younger daughter seems willing to help. She can get the name, plate number, etc.

  • Reply R H August 26, 2019 at 9:05 pm

    "Dad, it's not like that anymore." "NO it's exact like that."

  • Reply mt nguyen August 28, 2019 at 10:45 am

    That boy is nog right, after 5 years not man up to meet your parents in law.

  • Reply Kevin Reyes August 29, 2019 at 10:37 pm

    He need to stop acting like he good. He would get bitched up if he didn’t have money his ugly ass

  • Reply zackag13093 August 31, 2019 at 4:21 am

    Hes trying to find a way to have a son

  • Reply Abigail Garcia September 1, 2019 at 6:11 am

    I dont think this man is as bad as his daughters think. If he would have wanted, this boyfiend would have been out of the picture a while ago. Its been 5 yrs. He let too much time pass by.

  • Reply Connie O'Neal September 1, 2019 at 7:59 pm

    He needs some good biker friends

  • Reply dark zeratul September 9, 2019 at 2:29 am

    parents are no longer responsible for their kids once they turn 18 years old, instead, the parents should just let their kids live the life they want and date who they want. kids are not going to learn anything if parents keep interfering in their child's life once they turn 18 years old. If I was the girl I'd continue to date the guy even after the father disapproves and tell the father off and then cut all contact and disown

  • Reply Carter September 9, 2019 at 9:53 am

    I dated a girl years ago and her father had the same reputation. EVERY one of her ex boyfriends acted just like the boyfriend spoken about in this video. I walked her home every day after school from the first day we started dating. Not even one month into the relationship as we were turning the corner, her father happened to be taking out the trash. I'll never forget the look on his face when we first made eye contact. "That's my dad" she said. I was a 14 year old kid at the time. Without any hesitation I walked right up to him, extended my hand and said "It's nice to finally meet you sir, my name is Aaron." That was nearly 14 years ago. That man is now a grandfather to my four year old son. I was a kid..but we respected each other as men.

  • Reply L. Lee Montgomery September 19, 2019 at 4:30 am

    They both got something to hide and its as simple as that.

  • Reply Mandana Bagheri-Arya October 9, 2019 at 12:17 pm

    Steve is hilarious 😆

  • Reply Shirsten Reyes October 18, 2019 at 3:50 pm

    5 years? If a dude won't meet your father after that long he ain't a real man and or he really don't love her.

  • Reply Qeqi October 25, 2019 at 12:15 am

    She might be a lesbian but cant tell dad that

  • Reply Vahan Vardanyan October 28, 2019 at 7:42 am

    I’d watch that show Steve and this guy watching the house

  • Reply Vashon Hayes November 4, 2019 at 4:12 am

    Is there a part 2 if not can someone tell me when there is

  • Reply Janna Lewis November 9, 2019 at 7:48 pm

    She a grown woman she can do whatever she wants.

  • Reply Lixi i November 17, 2019 at 1:17 am

    Dad is being intimidating isn’t an excuse. There’s something seriously wrong here

  • Reply Kaitlin December 21, 2019 at 3:41 am

    This isn’t an overprotective father. This is a very concerned father.

  • Reply Hazhar Muhiadin December 22, 2019 at 7:19 pm

    Why alway the most of the hosts are women ?

  • Reply Dom Edwards January 4, 2020 at 6:10 pm

    I need an update!!! Did get find the boy? Is it a boy? What happened!!!

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