A couple questions their relationship after a surprise find. | The Dress You Have On
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A couple questions their relationship after a surprise find. | The Dress You Have On

August 31, 2019

(insects buzzing) ♪ Growing older ♪ ♪ Older together ♪ ♪ Growing older ♪ – [Jess] How was work? – I’m so tired. I officially hate coffee. – You know you could just quit. – Yeah, I don’t wanna work for your dad. How many times do I have to tell you? – [Jess] It doesn’t have to be permanent, but he’s already said he would
work around design school. – Can we just drop it? Thanks. I don’t even know if I wanna
go to design school anymore. – Since when? – [Libby] We can talk about it later. I have to take a shower if we’re going to this
fucking engagement party. (shower running) (shower stopping) – Fuck. – Here. – Libby? – [Libby] Yeah? – First it was getting
your master’s degree in women’s studies. Then it was teaching inner-city schools, then it was writing a novel. Then after extensive conversations and lengthy applications, and deposits, it was design school. Now it’s what, Starbucks management track? – [Libby] I said I don’t
want to talk about it yet. – [Jess] Well I do. – [Libby] I need to get ready. – You look fine in the dress
you have on, Elizabeth. – [Libby] It doesn’t feel like me. – [Jess] You’ve had that dress for years. – Yeah, well, it doesn’t
look like me anymore. I used to look better in this dress. – Are you going to tell
me what’s going on? – Nothing, I’m just, I’m just tired. And I need some space. Can I get dressed in peace,
or do you need to hover? – I’m trying to have a
conversation with you. Do you want me to help you
get dressed so we can talk? – [Libby] I don’t need
help picking out a dress. I’ve been wearing dresses my whole life. I think I can figure it out just fine on my own, thank you. – Why do you have this, Libby? – So now you’re going through my stuff? – For fuck sake, why do you have this? – A guy at work was flirting with me. He must have stuck it in my
bag as a suggestive joke. Nothing happened. I don’t even like the guy. – Do you think I’m an idiot? – What? You don’t think
someone would flirt with me? Sometimes it’s nice to
have attention from a man. – [Jess] That’s what this is about? – It’s not that simple. – I’m trying to have a
conversation with you. What else do you miss? – We are going to be late. – What else do you miss? You miss feeling validated? You miss feeling pretty? You miss being the center of attention, that’s what this is about? – You know what I miss? Jess? I miss the smell of your cologne. How it would, always stay on the sheets
after you took a nap. I miss the bulk of your weight,
pressing against me, making me feel safe. I miss, I miss your stubble. And how it would always turn my
nose pink after we made out. I miss fucking. I’m sorry, but I do. I miss being fucked but really, by a man. And I – I don’t know. There, do you feel better now? But nothing happened, really. Nothing happened. It was just a fantasy. I still had some. And I just put it in my bag. (heavy breathing) – [Jess] Do you still love me? – That has nothing to do with it. – Look at me. I know things haven’t been
perfect, I know there are things that you miss, but
you can’t keep changing your mind every five minutes
whether you’re in this or not. – I have been in this
since we were 16, Jess. I was there. For all of it. Hormones, surgery, name change. Therapy, appointments, so, so many fucking appointments, and I was there for all of it. That’s not what this is about. – You don’t love me anymore. – [Libby] God, nothing happened. – That’s not what I’m saying. I’m not talking about
him, I’m talking about me. – It’s not about you, Jess! For once, it is not about you. Or him. It’s me. It’s about me. I just. I feel so goddam lost
in this relationship. We’ve been so busy building your identity, we forgot mine altogether. I don’t know who I am
outside of you anymore. – What do you need? I don’t know. Time, maybe. Can you give me that? – [Jess] How much time, Libby? – That is not fair. That is not fair of you to ask. I gave you 12 years, Jess. I still love you. So fucking much. But I don’t think I can do this anymore. – Here. Close your eyes. – I’m sorry. – I don’t want to poke you in the eye. (laughing) (crying) I’m afraid you are my one and only shot. But maybe that’s not enough of a reason.


  • Reply Storm Saffy July 16, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    Love this

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  • Reply Abu Khizar July 16, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality

  • Reply NMZ .10 July 16, 2019 at 12:56 pm

    l am an Arab , l hope you will translation Arabic โ˜น๏ธโค๏ธ

  • Reply Bravo Alley July 16, 2019 at 12:58 pm

    I would like to see a documentary in regards to post reactions.

  • Reply Bravo Alley July 16, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    Has there been any story about how a man reacts to their girlfriend (possibly ex) becoming a man?

  • Reply dawn dusk July 16, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    this really opens your eyes about changes to every people's lives. it's hard sometimes. i guess we also just need to learn how to accept it and everything needs time.

  • Reply mahmoud mahfouz July 16, 2019 at 1:39 pm

    Brilliant acting

  • Reply Lady Raven July 16, 2019 at 1:45 pm

    My Comment is in the Pinned post and please be Respectful .I noticed people not knowing what to say .If you are in any long term relationship especially from a young age .it doesnt matter your sexual orientation.

  • Reply GradKat July 16, 2019 at 1:47 pm

    They need to split up.

  • Reply Alainpbat July 16, 2019 at 1:51 pm

    This is a Masterpiece

  • Reply Vanessa Dickens-Boyd July 16, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    Great storyline

  • Reply Katia Carolie July 16, 2019 at 2:28 pm

    Wow they should split up

  • Reply spicy July 16, 2019 at 2:29 pm

    So 3:45 thats what demonitization looks like

  • Reply kaoutar koko July 16, 2019 at 2:31 pm


  • Reply Nt4ubs July 16, 2019 at 3:10 pm

    Trans short films seem to be the in thing at the moment. Easy way to get success I suppose.

  • Reply Doron Ron July 16, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    The hardest part of falling in love is realising you were the last to know when it ends.

  • Reply Igor Ocash July 16, 2019 at 5:02 pm

    Truly awful. May the forces pushing this on the nation's youth be confused, scattered, distracted – stopped.

  • Reply Cindi Rice July 16, 2019 at 6:03 pm

    This is sad and sweet. Well done!

  • Reply Michael Barnhart July 16, 2019 at 6:16 pm

    That was powerful.

  • Reply M D Films July 16, 2019 at 6:25 pm

    Great work

  • Reply Dr George J July 16, 2019 at 6:41 pm

    Moral of the story, listen to your parents till you grow up enough to make big decisions

  • Reply Josh Vainstein July 16, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    The only problem of this short is that it's for free

  • Reply Corvo Attano July 16, 2019 at 10:38 pm

    Moral of the story: If you're a cisgender, don't try to make it work with a trannie.

  • Reply Carmen George Weddings July 17, 2019 at 1:33 am

    Every couple has to face these moments and decide if they are going to stay together or part ways.

  • Reply Ariel Cotton July 17, 2019 at 2:27 am

    Oh how the prophesies come to fruition. This should not be normalized. Idc I have a friend transitioning and tell him it's a sin and he is a "devout" Orthodox Jew. So laughable. He knows he is sinning against God and still does it. The Bible written so long ago and here we are still ignoring God's Word.

    Romans 1:26-27
    King James Bible
    For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature
    And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

  • Reply Mohamed F. Afifi July 17, 2019 at 4:04 am

    The condom I found in your bag !

  • Reply Ashish Badoni July 17, 2019 at 5:40 am

    This was heart-warming-wrenching. Great work from the actors and the writer. Good JOB ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Reply tietjen666 July 17, 2019 at 5:53 am

    I have not known love with pain, in equal measure. Fine film, well made. Thank you.

  • Reply Gregory Krajeski July 17, 2019 at 6:52 am

    My advice to them would be to stay together. They have a love and an understanding of each other that they are unlikely to find elsewhere.

    It is reasonable for the one to want a man. I would not recommend a completely open relationship, nor would I recommend a three way relationship with some guy moving in, but I would recommend that she be allowed to have the occasional man under terms and rules that the two of them can agree on.

  • Reply Reme A July 17, 2019 at 7:16 am

    Some one used heart wrenching to describe this video. I quite agree. Sometimes loving someone just isn't enough to keep a relationship alive.

  • Reply dillydee6 July 17, 2019 at 2:30 pm

    Just Wow. ๐Ÿ˜ถ

  • Reply Vidhi Vishariya July 17, 2019 at 4:06 pm

    2:23 ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ
    3:46 ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ
    LIKE IF YOU GET IT! ๐Ÿ˜‚โ™ฅ๏ธ

  • Reply misterlei97 July 17, 2019 at 10:14 pm

    Wow. This was an excellent, hypnotic piece of film-making. It held me spell-bound for 13 minutes and thirty-four seconds. It was adventurous and emotional, beautiful and real.

  • Reply Knobbae July 18, 2019 at 3:34 am

    Time to part ways, great film! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

  • Reply lzeph July 18, 2019 at 2:57 pm

    Excellent short, very powerful.

  • Reply Lorena Andrade July 19, 2019 at 1:06 am

    I'm not crying, you're crying….

  • Reply May July 19, 2019 at 4:00 am

    I don't blame her..If she started with a man that changed and she wants a man…let her be with a man. They just aren't meant for each other.

  • Reply D Lisa July 19, 2019 at 4:35 pm

    Amazing acting

  • Reply Renee Carr July 20, 2019 at 4:20 pm

    Wow.. My father who passed away 2 years ago, was a post op transgender. It's hard to say father and she.. But I was there through the entire transition. Everyone else left. EVERYONE. And it was really hard
    His ex girlfriend was there through a lot of it.. Just like this girl.. But she ended up leaving. She wasn't a lesbian. And my parent, Tina, formerly Chris, ended up in total regret of the decision. See… For those who truly are transgender, it isn't a choice. This film touched my heart in a way most people will never understand. โค๐Ÿ’ง๐Ÿ’”Rest in peace daddy Tina.

  • Reply Richard Scott July 21, 2019 at 10:34 am

    Powerful. โ€˜Nuff said.

  • Reply Carolina Valentini August 3, 2019 at 8:29 pm


  • Reply Youtube is You August 4, 2019 at 6:39 am

    K. Weird

  • Reply TheREVTALKtv August 11, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    13:34 minutes of riveting, brilliant, captivating work. WOW…

  • Reply Shruti Mehta August 29, 2019 at 4:12 pm

    This deserves so many more views

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